Today's blog, we are dealing with nuisance behaviours - those things our dogs do that drive us absolutely bonkers and love to hate - what they are, and how to fix them. Since there are so many, we will be addressing those that we receive the most complaints for.
1) Unwanted Licking
Whether it be you that is subjected to the constant tongue contact, your guests, kids, furniture, or other objects, it can get really old, really fast - especially if they don't seem to understand that it isn't wanted or acceptable. Usual licking crosses the border into nuisance licking after a few seconds. It is important to understand that licking is a normal, social behaviour that should be allowed - but only briefly, and in most normal situations.
Licking, when not linked to a neurological or psychological disorder, is caused by one of three things. Submissiveness, Dominance, and Boredom. Which of these three your dog is displaying is important to know, because it indicates greater issues - but for the purpose of this blog, we will address the behaviour itself.
Submissive licking is usually caused by a dog that is meeker, more shy, or more scared of various things in life. It is generally caused by a desire for the dog to assert their role as the lesser animal, and assure you (in great excess) that they are a weaker animal. It is hallmarked by other submissive behaviours, like muzzle-licking themselves, licking your hands or arms in excess, fast tail wagging, whining, or even lick-and-run behaviours. When your dog is performing submissive licking, they are generally doing to to reassure you - and themselves - that there doesn't need to be any punishment or severe reaction to keep them "in line" - a symptom that your dog is not confident with either you, guests, or something in their world. It is a sign that there is something greater going on, and your scared pup needs some work.
Dominant licking however occurs when a dog insists on licking - or grooming you - because they wish to. It is a behaviour that many dominant dogs will perform, sometimes targeting places like your face, nose, and mouth - but its not usually located to a specific place of the body. A dominant licker will simply walk over and begin to lick you, whether you protest or not. Dominant licking is a way for your dog to communicate that they are granting your their affection, or they believe you need to be cleaner and are taking the matter into their own tongues. Generally speaking, dominant licking is linked to other dominant behaviours, and should be addressed in kind.
Bored licking, or licking caused by too much energy, is usually coupled with other kinds of chaos - like running, barking, pacing, or lazy behaviours, like sitting in their bed and constantly licking their paws, fur, toys, or other objects, like your table, hands, or legs. It usually can be either crazed, hyper licking that doesn't seem to stop or slow down until you distract them, or slow, rhythmic, or timed licks with or without moving or pacing behaviour. A prime example of this is a dog that has been home alone for a bit that day and their paws are licked wet, or you arrive home and they greet you not with one or two, but a thousand licks, bounce around, and circle around. You could also be watching TV and your dog will begin to absentmindedly lick your feet, or their fur, bed, or toys. These are all signs that your dog is bored and just wants to do something else - they just cannot ask you, so they occupy themselves with licking things.
Licking - How To Solve
Whatever the case, the remedy is the same. If your dog does not already understand impulse control (a common way of training this is to teach them to wait patiently for a treat and make eye contact with you before they get it), they will need at least a basic understanding of the concept, preferably a deeper, more patient understanding of "I have to wait for what I want, I cannot just go grab it until I am given permission). Once they have this understanding, here is the fun part - you are going to REWARD the licking! This sounds counter intuitive, but we are priming the licking the same way you would prime a puppy to understand the concept of treats - and also to teach the dog what the word "lick" or "kisses" means. Once they can lick on command - and no matter the cause, once they realize they can get something good out of licking, this won't be an issue - you're going to introduce the idea of stoppage - be it "No Lick" or "Stop Kissing" or however you choose to mark a cessation in the behaviour - whatever their "don't do that anymore" word is - you will reward them when they stop. Once you have them understanding they must lick on command and stop when you tell them to, you're going to apply this to real world situations, and eventually, your dog will understand that they can lick, but only when they are told to!
2) Problem Barking
When a dog barks a couple times, most people don't care - and sometimes appreciate the behaviour, especially when you don't notice someone in your yard before the dog does, or you weren't aware the delivery truck had arrived. This can be great, except if your dog likes to sound the alarm at every passerby, every vehicle, and heaven forbid, every bird or squirrel. It gets on your nerves, and the nerves of your neighbors very fast.
Most problem barking is caused by too much energy - they're barking just to bark at something, which is easily remedied by some exercise. However, there are some situations where it isn't just too much energy - when it is alarm barking, or when it is aggressive barking.
Barking from too much energy is hallmarked by a dog barking at random sounds, birds, or something you can't pinpoint. It is not quite an alarm bark, and not quite an aggressive bark, but it can be coupled with bouncing, jumping, or gymnastic style furniture hopping.
Alarm Barking is caused by a dog - whether bred to be a watchdog or not - that is a little fearful of something - usually things they cannot see or control, such as someone walking nearby, or someone knocking at the door. These dogs are borderline panicking, communicating to you that they are afraid and want you to fix it. It is hallmarked by high pitched, loud, rapid-fire barking that sounds like a machine gun burst - a kind of BUH-BUH-BUH-BUH-BUH-BUH-BUH!!!! It often includes pacing, hiding, or door charging behaviours, but can also be from a stationary position until the door is opened.
Aggressive barking is caused by a dog that is trying to look and sound like a threat, either because they believe they need to scare off anything that might challenge their dominance, or cause them or their pack harm. It is usually from a perceived belief that the human can't - or won't - protect them. Sometimes it can be fear based, a desire to appear more "tough" or on defense, but usually it is caused by dominance. It sounds deeper, slower, more fearsome, and can be coupled with growling, and bearing teeth.
Barking - How To Solve
Just like with licking, you're going to want to solve the root cause - which is harder and deeper than a simple behaviour - but for the behaviour itself, it works exactly the same as training out the licking behaviour - by rewarding it first, putting it on queue, and then teaching the concept of "no bark" or "stop barking". The root cause of the barking will however need to be addressed - and most often, when they are addressed properly, the barking issues solve themselves.
3) Whining (In Adult Dogs)
When adult dogs whine, it's typically in place of other normal adult dog behaviours, like barking or growling. Most often, it's caused when a growing puppy learns that it is acceptable and that it works to get attention or whatever they need. Some dogs naturally out-grow whining, and while it is a normal mode of communication for puppies, adult dogs should only whine when they are in pain, or to communicate fear or unease. When an adult dog uses whining as a mode of communication like a puppy, for example to catch your attention, to communicate needs like food, to pee, or exercise, or to make a noise that makes you look at or talk to them, you have a nuisance whining problem.
Nuisance whining is caused by a dog that is responded to and had learned that, for whatever the cause, they get a reaction and your attention from it, they will keep doing so, under the belief that it is how you prefer them to communicate to you. It can also be a submissive/fear related behaviour, but whatever the root, the product is the same - they have learned that it works.
Whining - How To Solve
There are two ways to train out of a whining behaviour - and you can do them both, just not at the same time. You can train it out with the above strategy and putting it on command. Once they get this concept, whining can and often still does persist, even when they understand what whining is, and that they shouldn't do it until they are asked, because it is an ingrained behaviour that is used for communicating needs. You are also going to need to totally ignore the whining behaviour, and remove yourself from the dog's presence (either by turning your back or walking away a few feet) and ignore completely until the whining has stopped - THEN reward the dog for "Good Quiet" and wait a few seconds for them to stay quiet, and give them what they want or need. This can be a long process, because the dog has had many months - sometimes years - of the behaviour getting them what they desire - be it your attention, eye contact, pets, or whathaveyou - and it's going to be a hard lesson for them to comprehend. Patience and grace goes a long way with this behaviour!
We hope we have helped!
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